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Memories of Brookshires Grocery Store in Tyler Texas

December 7th, 2010
Downtown Tyler TX Brooksires Grocery Store

Brookshires Grocery in the 1920's

As a  child in the 1950’s, we used to spend the whole Summer with my Grandparents in Tyler.  My Mom grew up there.  I have wonderful memories of Tyler, but part of it is when my Grandparents or Parents would take me and my cousins to shop at Brookshire’s!

Having no air conditioning at their house, we LOVED the cold air and floors there!  Back then we used to go  barefooted, and the cold floor felt WONDERful!  (I don’t know if kids do that now)   Our special treat was to each be able to pick out a comic book if we were good, and my Grandma taught us to each pick out a DIFFERENT one so we could trade and read 3 different ones!

Even though I lived in Brooklyn, NY, and my cousins lived in LA, California, we loved that time of year when we would live as one Family together in my Grandparents’ house on the State Park Highway, and play with our Texas cousins for the whole Summer!!!  What a wonderful world it was for me…to this day, I feel that it was “therapeutic” as I was growing up, and I hope to go back one day.  Cheryl

Brookshires Grocery Store Olden Days

Brookshire's Tyler Texas 1940

Moving in and Moving out in Tyler Texas

December 7th, 2010
Tyler Texas Moving

Moving Out in Tyler Texas

One of the requirements of life which I most dislike is the process of moving! Thankfully, (and I mean that sincerely) it’s been almost seven years since my last move, due to the fact that I own my own house. However I’ve been around a lot of movers lately, and I have often had a boarder or two in my spare room. Obviously there are two components to the move: the move in and the move out. Both of these stages happen nearly simultaneously so it’s important that the tenet/ roommate/ partner (no I don’t like that vague terminology either but whatever), not place all of his or her attention on one stage at the expense of the other. A balanced approach is really what we’re looking for here.

The Move In:

The first thing that I find important is to define your space. I think in most cases this has probably already happened to one degree or another at the time you decided to move. If you’re moving into a house or an apartment where other people already live, this is difficult but imperative. I think the institution of marriage would have experienced a great deal more success and popularity in recent years, had it not required cohabitation. When the culture and mood of a house (meaning its occupants) already exists, keep to your designated space and don’t try to change what’s there unless invited to do so. I realize that this seems obvious, but I’ve had numerous boarders that didn’t quite get this concept. Asking of you can hang a few items of clothing in your new roommate’s closet or if you can change or place new pictures on the living room wall is probably not going to be seen as generous or helpful. Over time your space will grow as the other occupants grow more comfortable with you in the house. By keeping to your space; I mean your boxes and such. I don’t mean yourself. I don’t recommend making a b-line for the new room and closing the door. It’s important that your new roommates not suspect that they are now living with the Una-bomber. By the way I don’t recommend starting to unpack until the move out process has been completed. Lastly, don’t be afraid to throw old or unused, unimportant items away! This is a big one to me. Leave the high school letter jacket and yearbooks in your parent’s attic. Shred those ten year old checkbooks and bank statements. Trust me you’re never going to use them, and keeping all this stuff only makes you look like a hoarder.

The Move out:

If you’re moving out of an apartment the rules for move outs are firmly established at the time of the move in. Out by this date or no returned deposit. If the agreement is more flexible, then it’s important not to exhaust your friends and roommates. First off be out on the agreed upon date. You’re living with people not a corporation. Most likely they have other plans for the space you occupy. Don’t use that space as a storage container. This is why I don’t recommend unpacking until the move is completed. Any organization should be done at that time by the way. The goal is simply to get your possessions out of the old residence and into the new with as little damage to property as possible. My rule is: don’t sleep at the new place until the move is complete. I understand that’s not always possible, so I don’t consider it a hard and fast rule. But I try to observe the spirit of the law. I think it’s also important to emphasize that the move is not complete until a good cleaning has taken place. Don’t leave the space a mess for others to clean up. A good few times over with the vacuum, and a Magic Erasure for the walls will make a huge difference, and ensure that your good name is not damaged in the process of the move.

Mving to Tyler TexasLiving in the same house with others can be really difficult. Things that seem small to you may drive your roommates up the wall, and vice-versa. But with a little maturity and consideration, the move doesn’t have to permanently damage your relationships. On the brighter side, a move can help to simplify your life, if you take the time and have the strength of will to part with things that clutter it up. Remember, it’s just stuff! You will accumulate more, like it or not, guaranteed.

Are You Ready to Move Your Elderly Relative into Your Tyler, Texas Home?

November 21st, 2010

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Elder Care in Tyler TX

Do you have an elderly relative that, while still mobile and mentally alert, is having some issues that you feel require the relative to have more supervision? If you are feeling that this relative needs someone around more often than not, it may cross your mind to invite this elderly relative to move into your home with your family in Tyler, Texas. But is this a good idea?

First of all, consider the amount of space you have in your house. Is there enough space for this relative to have their own bedroom? What about the number of bathrooms in the home? Is there at least one that can be converted to a bathroom for your elderly relative to use and bathe in safety? Also, you must consider how the rest of your family gets along with this relative. If any of these questions are answered in a negative light, you may want to reconsider this particular living arrangement in favor of something a bit different but just as safe.

On the other hand, if you have an extra bedroom in your Tyler, Texas home that isn’t really being used, as well as a bathroom that can be outfitted with tub rails and a toilet chair, you could be in business. Add to that the fact that your family adores this relative and would love to have them as an integral part of the household and it may be the ideal arrangement. Now you only have to convince the elderly relative that it’s the perfect idea.

Approaching your Elderly Relative about Assisted Living in Tyler, Texas

November 17th, 2010

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Tyler TX Assisted Living

Often, elderly relatives do not understand that they need assisted living care and they can become combative, hurt, or both when the idea is suggested. In fact, for many fiercely independent elderly people, this can be one of the touchiest subjects you will ever approach with them. Living in Tyler, Texas can make this burden a lot easier on everyone because of the number of assisted living facilities and services located in and around this city. Tyler has some of the most excellent assisted living care offered anywhere in the nation and their staff members are all highly trained and experienced in working with the elderly in this capacity.

It is important not to make your elderly relative feel as if there is something “wrong” with them when you broach the subject of assisted living. Indeed, your relative may only need someone to help them a few days a week doing things such as light housework, preparing meals, laundry, and running errands. These are all things that family members can also help with as their schedule permits. However, if the elderly relative insists on remaining in his or her own home, there may be times that family will not be available. This is when a home health worker can be invaluable.

If your elderly relative is showing some definite signs of such issues as Alzheimer’s, dementia, or even severe senility, it may be time to look at options of more intense care. If you are unsure of just what type of care or assistance your elderly relative may need, there’s plenty of help in Tyler.

Alzheimer’s Care in Tyler, Texas

November 13th, 2010

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Dementia Memory Care

A diagnosis of Alzheimer’s disease strikes dread in the hearts of everyone affected by it. Not only is the victim’s life forever changed, but the lives of the victim’s family is also significantly altered. There are decisions that need to be made before the last stages set in and the elderly relative with Alzheimer’s is no longer able to think for him or herself. While the affected senior citizen can still rationalize and make some of their own decisions, now is the time to start making long-term plans for their care when the family can no longer provide everything they need.

If you live in Tyler, Texas, this you have options. Tyler has many excellent assisted living programs and facilities that are designed to cater specifically to the needs of Alzheimer’s patients. In addition, the staff is trained to help the families of these patients adjust and learn how to cope during the difficult days ahead.

Many families want to be able to keep their elderly relative suffering from Alzheimer’s at home as long as possible. However, it may not be feasible to do this in the latter stages of the disease. There are many things the Alzheimer’s patient needs during that time and it is painful for the family members to watch this deterioration first hand.

Tyler, Texas offers services that are top notch and will help your loved ones through this very stressful time. Your senior’s doctor can offer suggestions as to where you can find the information for long-term care that will eventually be needed.